Growing up we are exposed to many social narratives that say, “This is a boy thing. That is a girl thing. This is for teenage girls. That is for nerds.” You can like x but don’t talk about it too much, or even at all! You can enjoy superheroes but if you can tell me which art styles were pioneered by Steve Ditko you’re too interested in a thing!
This is a bunch of bunk, or #$%^ if you prefer.